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Okay... I have a REALLY personal question for anyone reading this (to-whom the question applies, anyway...):
Okay: If you are into BDSM and are a Top (and are cool with sharing this stuff with me, um), what is it about submissive people that turns you on? What is it about tying people up, flogging them, etc. that works for you?
Also: Your first time(s) Topping someone (or Topping them officially, if you will)... were you nervous? were you worried about taking someone too far, or not far enough? Does this sort of worry even apply in such a situation?
how did (might) fetish/BDSM clubs/events factor into such things as, say, stage fright or performance anxiety? Particularly for a first-timer?
Also: If you're wondering why the hell I'm asking you all this? I got an idea for a story (more girl-erotica), and I need to do some back-ground research in the hopes of making it believable.
Help? :-D
- TTFN,
- Amazon.
Okay: If you are into BDSM and are a Top (and are cool with sharing this stuff with me, um), what is it about submissive people that turns you on? What is it about tying people up, flogging them, etc. that works for you?
Also: Your first time(s) Topping someone (or Topping them officially, if you will)... were you nervous? were you worried about taking someone too far, or not far enough? Does this sort of worry even apply in such a situation?
how did (might) fetish/BDSM clubs/events factor into such things as, say, stage fright or performance anxiety? Particularly for a first-timer?
Also: If you're wondering why the hell I'm asking you all this? I got an idea for a story (more girl-erotica), and I need to do some back-ground research in the hopes of making it believable.
Help? :-D
- TTFN,
- Amazon.
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